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Top 5 Ways To Crush Self-Doubt Like A Boss

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Are You Feeling Self Doubt Right Now?

When you’re a writer, self doubt is never far away it seems. Recognise first that self-doubt is just part of the process. This tiny mindset change can make all the difference. Why? Because you no longer feel like you ‘shouldn’t’ feel this way. It is what it is.

In addition, every Bang2writer knows the importance of your peers having your back … Especially when the dreaded self-doubt strikes! Having others in your corner to commiserate and encourage you is really, really important. This is why I set up the B2W  secret Facebook group. (You can get an invite to the group by enrolling on the FREE Bang2write course, The Foundations of Writing Craft. Simply CLICK HERE or on any of the pics in this article to join).

Here’s my top 5 tips to CRUSH that self-doubt like a boss! Here goes (and if you like it, please pass it on!) …

1) Make Yourself Feel Better (by whatever means necessary!)

Sometimes, when I’m feeling the twinge (or sledgehammer!) of self-doubt, I feed my inspiration by checking out the most UNLIKELY projects that ever got greenlit.

“A tornado full of sharks?? WHY NOT!” Someone must have said. And you know what, everyone’s heard of SHARKNADO, regardless of whether they’ve actually watched it or not.

Then let’s not forget just about everything Nic Cage has done in the last ten years including Ghost Rider 2 … This movie was backed by Marvel, yet was so odd I really thought it was a chemo-induced hallucination. Nic Cage catches on fire! Idris Elba turns to dust! That’s pretty much it for two hours! I described it on Twitter recently, only for one Tweep to obligingly say, ‘Oh no, that really is a movie.’ Huh.

It works for books, too. Today I was afraid my new novel was going to work, so I Googled ‘Weird Books’.

Mental Floss duly obliged with a whopping 39 Book That Really Exist including How To Poo On A Date; Does God Speak Through Cats? (the answer is YES, obviously); and my personal favourite, How To Survive A Garden Gnome Attack: What To Do When The Garden Warriors Strike (And They Will).

SUMMING UP: Take solace in the fact someone is always working on a project stupider or more screwed up than yours.

MORE: 4 Reasons Concept Counts Above All Else

2) Read about others’ failures

NEWSFLASH: no writer is simply ‘lucky’. Everyone on earth, including your favourite writer/s, has FAILED.

And the more successful someone is? The more EPICALLY they have failed somewhere down the line to get where they are today. We’re talking such bad failure, most of us would scratch off our own skin and then crawl into a fire ant nest! But no, these failing writers kept going. Because there is no alternative.

But hey, don’t believe me. Read about these famous failing writers.

SUMMING UP: Everyone fails. You might not fail, but you definitely will if you let self-doubt kill your efforts.

3) Understand everyone goes through this

DYK? Self-doubt is a rite of passage for all writers.

Or at least, all GOOD ones. Yes, even the multi-multi-famous bestselling/produced ones.

So you’re on the right track … The moment you stop doubting your efforts, the more complacent you will be – and guess what! Your writing will become pedestrian and dull. You’ll no longer have the edge and you’ll FAIL! Supersadface (but true). MORE: 33 Industry Insides On Success, Dreams & Failure


4) Recognise you’ve a right to this

Very often Bang2writers will come to me, crushed by self-doubt and the fear that their efforts will come to nothing. They’ll say they feel guilty, especially if they have young children. They will confess to fearing on ‘missing out’ – or worse, their kids missing out – if they don’t succeed … Their time away from the kids will have been ‘wasted’.

WHOA THERE NELLY. First off, even if you’re a parent, every Mum or Dad (or step-parent, guardian or something else) deserves time to themselves. Why shouldn’t that be writing or filmmaking!

Secondly, what is ‘success’? Making lots of money? Hah – good luck. Getting something published or produced? Okay, but then we can self-publish too, or make stuff ourselves – we don’t need to be ‘picked’. Getting the damn thing FINISHED? Yes, why not. Lots of people say they’ll write something and never get round to it.

You are not wasting your time. You have a right to this, so do it!

SUMMING UP: You want your kids to follow their dreams? Then lead by example and follow yours.

5) Just write! (And have the guts to finish)

The best antidote to self doubt is writing. It can be hard to let go of the feelings of self-doubt, but when they come DON’T succumb to them as this will only make you procrastinate. Instead, just plough on via any of these methods:

  • Brainstorming ideas with friends (2 heads always better than 1)
  • Read instead – articles, books, etc about writing
  • Try a spot of free writing
  • Don’t edit or read back, just write pages as they appear in your brain
  • Read novels and watch movies and TV (taking notes)

Notice I include reading as ‘writing time’. This is because B2W believes your best writing is done by THINKING. That’s why sitting in front of the laptop freaking out won’t work.

But more than any of this, you have to have the guts to FINISH. I see so many writers procrastinating by returning to their spec screenplays and unpublished novels again and again, rather than move forward. This stops them advancing in their craft AND careers. Awwww.

SUMMING UP: Onwards, ever onwards – write those pages, get feedback and edit as needed, THEN FINISH. Do not spend years on a single work or just a couple. Only through multiple works will you get where you need to be. MORE: It’s Time To Quit Stalling And Make That Jump

Good Luck!

Are you being driven crazy by your characters? Or maybe you’re struggling with structure? Or perhaps it’s your concept that’s creating the problem?

Whatever your issue is, B2W’s free online mini-course can provide the powerful reset you need.

Designed for both authors and screenwriters, the course will guide you through what you need to make sure your story is rock solid.

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